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Who should pay on a date?

Man, always
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Man, always first, most of follow up dates
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Man, always on first date, then even split
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Whoever asks on first date, then split
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Even split
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Split according to finances
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And no, I’m not putting a woman always option.
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I asked my wife and she said that the guy should always pay for the first, and most of the dates, to show he can afford it. Otherwise, he’s not worth it.

Is she a caveman?
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Meh. Whomever grabs the bill first.
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I say the man pays unless they are doing something he really would rather not do, like go to a musical or ballet. Then she should pay to compensate for his misery.

Also a BJ at the end of the date.
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I recently had a woman offer to take me to Vegas for a long weekend, and pay for everything because she has money.

I told her, "Maybe, but just because you're paying you better not expect me to put out."
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GORDON wrote: I recently had a woman offer to take me to Vegas for a long weekend, and pay for everything because she has money.
So... “split according to finances”?
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I'm not going. She said she L-Worded me, a few days ago.

And not the GOOD L-Word, which everyone knows is "lesbians."

Though, she is bi.
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GORDON wrote: She said she L-Worded me, a few days ago.
Huh?

As for the dating thing, I'm old fashioned. Catt's wife and I would get along great.
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Leisher wrote:
GORDON wrote: She said she L-Worded me, a few days ago.
Huh?
She said she l-worded me.
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GORDON wrote:
Leisher wrote:
GORDON wrote: She said she L-Worded me, a few days ago.
Huh?
She said she l-worded me.
Yeah, I don't know what that means.
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Love, I assume.

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GORDON wrote: I'm not going. She said she L-Worded me, a few days ago.

And not the GOOD L-Word, which everyone knows is "lesbians."

Though, she is bi.
So is that the end or what? And that seems fast.
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TheCatt wrote: Love, I assume.
AH! He had me stuck on lesbians.

I would need to see a picture to see if he erred. However, assuming this was only a 5 week romance, that seems awfully fast. It also seems like she maybe never met him. :D jk
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Leisher wrote: He had me stuck on lesbians.
Stuck on "Ewwwww?" ;)
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No... worth contemplating... but too many hurdles.
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