Dating in your 40s
Dating in your 40s
I'm probably the most zen person any of you know.
The last few years were difficult.
The last few years were difficult.
"Be bold, and mighty forces will come to your aid."
Dating in your 40s
Holy shit, this whole forum is nothing but racists.
Truthfully, I've never dated a black girl either, but I have had sex with two of them.
Never went to Asian route to my great disappointment. Just never had the opportunity.
I'm guessing she was pretty liberal and you two would have argued a lot.
Yeah, I've seen those ads for the missing women.
Yes.
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
This is a ridiculous statement.
You should not judge people by the color of their skin, but only a fool wouldn't judge a book by its cover. You should and DO get an idea of who you're dealing with. Anyone who says they don't is simply lying.
"Oh, look at those 6 black guys all wearing red sitting there. I'm sure I can walk my lilly white ass right by them while wearing all blue and there won't be an issue."
You want this to be true, but it's not. EVERYONE makes judgements, but open minded people will then let the person overcome that judgement.
That's why pre-hating them is more efficient. You don't have to waste time and energy figuring them out.
You have mellowed, and you are clearly at peace, but "most zen"? Nah. You're too conservative and still too opinionated. Being too Zen makes you a completely uncaring asshole. Don't be that guy.
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
You know me not.
(I'd love to see that on Jerry Springer just once, instead of YOU DON'T KNOW ME!)
(I'd love to see that on Jerry Springer just once, instead of YOU DON'T KNOW ME!)
"Be bold, and mighty forces will come to your aid."
Dating in your 40s
I'll counter with: "You don't know who I know."
BTW, this statement is hilariously judgy in a post about how you're not judgy :
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
Hate comes from fear. I could link all kinds of Buddhist shit about that, but don't want to.
I fear no one, so I hate no one. Literally everything you tried to say about me in that above post was wrong.
You know me not.
I fear no one, so I hate no one. Literally everything you tried to say about me in that above post was wrong.
You know me not.
"Be bold, and mighty forces will come to your aid."
Dating in your 40s
This is stupid. That man raped my sister, but I don't hate him because I don't fear him. Zero logic.
But it came from religious teachings, so it must be true...
I hate it when people say this. It's complete bullshit. You simply aren't in situations to fear anyone. A man without fear is an ignorant man. Plus, you're a parent, so I know you don't live without fear, unless you don't love your kid, which I know you do.
Oh, my bad. You get along GREAT with liberals, like all your liberal family members that have cut you out of their life and vice versa. And your statement judging people right about your statement about not judging people is totally not contradictory. And you're totes not opinionated because you're all on board with "that's what America wants". And you're the only person on the planet who doesn't pre-judge people based on their looks. Thus, if you were walking your kid down a dark alley and there was a guy standing there with an axe, a mask on, dead kids around him, and a sign that says "I will murder your kid if you bring him this way", you'd totally keep walking that way with your kid until that guy proved he was bad news.
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
Not gonna play. You nailed it, you know me better than I know myself. Nice!
So let's end the derail.
Just made plans to see the social worker saturday night. Had to lie about friday poker night. Sigh.
So let's end the derail.
Just made plans to see the social worker saturday night. Had to lie about friday poker night. Sigh.
"Be bold, and mighty forces will come to your aid."
Dating in your 40s
Fair enough, but I'm going to respond. However, I'll do it privately. "Praise in public. Criticize in private."
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
Why would you feel the need to criticize me? Do I need to be corrected about something? Should I feel worse than I do?
"Be bold, and mighty forces will come to your aid."
Dating in your 40s
Keep taking shots. It’s very zen.
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
No, I'm just a cunt who's busting chops.
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
When I was single, there were women that I met that looked pretty good, but within about 30 minutes I realized I didn't want them knowing where I lived. So I started paying as much attention to the things they wrote as the pictures they posted.
"... and then I was forced to walk the Trail of Tears." - Elizabeth Warren
Dating in your 40s
That is wise.
I've got to assume finding a single, good, unbroken woman in their 30s and 40s is next to impossible. They've already traveled down the road. You just have to determine how much mileage you're willing to deal with.
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
True, but by the time you hit your 40's you're probably working on addressing your brokenness, or you're heading towards death or an institution of some sort. So in some ways it makes it easier to recognize the ones you need to steer clear of.
"... and then I was forced to walk the Trail of Tears." - Elizabeth Warren
Dating in your 40s
We're all heading towards death from the moment we're born. Some people's required laps are just less than others.
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”
Dating in your 40s
“Every record been destroyed or falsified, books rewritten, pictures repainted, statues, street building renamed, every date altered. The process is continuing day by day. History stops. Nothing exists except endless present in which the Party is right.”