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Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 1:32 pm
by GORDON
From here.
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Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 1:43 pm
by TPRJones
It's somewhere in the 20s or so on my list, but I'm in favor of the legality of it not against it.
I still have yet to see an arguement in favor of banning gay marriage that isn't completely based on 1) forcing your religion on others, or 2) homophobia.
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Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 2:42 pm
by Mommy Dearest
It's somewhere in the 20s or so on my list, but I'm in favor of the legality of it not against it.
I still have yet to see an arguement in favor of banning gay marriage that isn't completely based on 1) forcing your religion on others, or 2) homophobia.
homophobe. I think you hit the nail on the head.
Posted: Mon Jun 05, 2006 3:46 pm
by TheCatt
Amen.
I was gonna do a post like:
What I've Learned From the Presidents
1) Sleeping with an intern? Lob missiles at foreign countries.
2) Approval rating in the shitter? Talk about banning gay marriage.
Whatever's going on, there's a distraction available somewhere.
Posted: Tue Jun 06, 2006 2:15 pm
by thibodeaux
I wish they'd give me free money as a distraction.
Posted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 11:31 pm
by Vince
I'm not for gay marriage not so much because of any religious beliefs, but because of what the fucking definition of marriage is. I've been all for a legally binding union for homosexuals for a number of years, just don't call it marriage.
Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 2:28 am
by TPRJones
Why not? If it smells like a marriage, it looks like a marriage, and it sounds like a marriage, why not just call it a marriage? What is your reasoning?
Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 8:36 am
by TheCatt
I'm not for gay marriage not so much because of any religious beliefs, but because of what the fucking definition of marriage is. I've been all for a legally binding union for homosexuals for a number of years, just don't call it marriage.
I'm all for black people counting in the census, just don't call them human, that's not what they are. 3/5s is plenty.
And M-W disagrees with you, Vince.
Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 10:29 am
by GORDON
While we're on this subject again, I'll restate that I oppose heterosexual marriage, as well.
Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 8:00 pm
by Vince
I'm not for gay marriage not so much because of any religious beliefs, but because of what the fucking definition of marriage is. I've been all for a legally binding union for homosexuals for a number of years, just don't call it marriage.
I'm all for black people counting in the census, just don't call them human, that's not what they are. 3/5s is plenty.
And M-W disagrees with you, Vince.
Well god dam. MW disagrees with me. They also have an entry for coconspirator.
You show me how one person can conspire by himself (without a mental disorder) and I'll agree that coconspirator is a proper word.
I think I'll just start calling creationism science while we're at it.
I base my belief on marriage being between a man and a woman on history. I did some research on it in the past and only found a couple of cultures where same sex unions were recognized. One of them was an American Indian tribe. I forget what the other one was, but it was another culture of little significance.
I do find it interesting that where same sex unions are recognized that lesbian couples have a higher divorce rate than even hetero couples.
If making one woman happy in a marriage is hard, making two happy is impossible.
Oh, and I agree with Gordo.
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Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 8:05 pm
by Leisher
If making one woman happy in a marriage is hard, making two happy is impossible.
I laughed.
I've never had a problem with homosexual marriage.
I will draw the line when people try to marry animals, inanimate objects, and people against their will.
Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 8:09 pm
by GORDON
I think 2 dudes should be able to marry, though, as long as they're just friends. It's easy for a couple buddies to get along forever without all the "He hasn't said a word since dinner... is he mad at me?" bullshit. So there should be tax breaks and stuff afforded that kind of relationship.
All in all, if one type opf marriage is legal, I guess they all should be. Or at least left up to the states (like that will ever happen again).
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 12:10 am
by Vince
I'm still curious about the states where polygomy used to be legal. Did the other states just not recognized the additional marriages?
The problem with leaving it up to the states is that the other states have to recognize the legality of the marriage (unless they passed a law or amended their state's Constitutions beforehand). Not that I have a problem leaving things up to the states, but differing standards of who can and can't be married could get confusing.
For instance, no marriage in Hollywood would be recognized at legit anywhere else because, let's face it... they don't even consider them legit in Hollywood.
If I ran my own state I wouldn't recognize gay marriages because I don't want to institute some sort of "proof of consumation" to weed out the ones looking for tax breaks. Or at aleast, I don't want to see any proof of consumation.
Not that a hetero couple couldn't do that, but let's be real. Would you put up with the amount of BS you do from your spouse if you weren't getting laid at least some of the time (even if it's bad sex). That'd have to be a big ass fucking tax break.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 8:18 am
by TheCatt
People do fake marriages all the time.
I guess I'm just glad you're not running the state.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 9:44 am
by Leisher
As Catt points out, if fake marriage is the issue, then maybe we need to clamp down on illegals marrying American citizens.
Two scenarios:
A - A gay couple get married and enjoy all the benefits and downfalls that any married couple face.
B - A gay couple and a lesbian couple get together and marry each other's partner so the state recognizes their marriages as between a man and a woman. They buy homes right next to each other to make it easier to live the lie by swapping mail, being around for any marriage decisions, etc.
In one scenario, the gay couple has zero headaches and lives as functioning, contributing members of society.
In the other, they do the same thing except they have to jump through a bunch of hoops to fool the system.
Meanwhile, Pablo can pretend he likes Mary Jane American so she'll foolishly marry him ASAP. He'll then bring over all his relatives and divorce her as soon as is legally possible.
Which is worse for American society?
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 10:02 am
by TPRJones
I base my belief on marriage being between a man and a woman on history. I did some research on it in the past and only found a couple of cultures where same sex unions were recognized. One of them was an American Indian tribe. I forget what the other one was, but it was another culture of little significance.
Do you really want a list of all the things done throughout history that turned out to be stupid or wrong? That'd be a hell of a long list, you know.
Do you have something more logical as a basis? I admit you've named a reason that doesn't seem to be based entirely on homophobia or religion (although one could argue that religion has had a strong effect on history, and thus could be a possible basis for this reason, too). But I was hoping for something that actually made some sort of sense.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 11:25 am
by Malcolm
I will draw the line when people try to marry...people against their will.
That's all of them.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 11:28 am
by Malcolm
(although one could argue that religion has had a strong effect on history, and thus could be a possible basis for this reason, too).
I was gonna say. Hell, not terribly long ago, homosexuality was a crime. A bit further back, it was a crime punishable by death.
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 11:37 am
by GORDON
nOT IN EVERY CULTURE, AS WAS MENTIONED BEFORE.
stupid caps lock
Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 11:44 am
by Malcolm
Not in every culture, but in a vast majority of them.