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GORDON wrote: and purrs when she's satisfied, and doesn't realize she's doing it.
That's really weird. I can't believe you spent your date watching videos of her banging her ex(es).
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Know what?

If.youre open and honest with most women, and tell them you aren't ready for a commitment, but are open to just being good friends who sleep together, they'll often appreciate the honesty, will sleep with you anyway, and be honestly curious about the other girls.

Go figure.

But it could be because I communicate well. Your mileage may vary
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Long story short, these little flings, done with complete honesty, may be the healthiest relationships I've ever had.
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GORDON wrote: Long story short, these little flings, done with complete honesty, may be the healthiest relationships I've ever had.
That makes me wonder if you haven't done complete honesty before?
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Hiding real feelings. Mostly referring to the last 5 years.
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GORDON wrote: Hiding real feelings. Mostly referring to the last 5 years.
Gotcha. Well, honesty is key and all that jazz.

Part of my is like "I hope you're wearing a condom" and part of me is like "Ugh, condoms are the worst"
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I cant really remember what dating was like before I was married, but I think it was doing and saying anything to get laid. This was the early 90s, the AIDS era, and the casual sex Tinder revolution wasn't a thing yet. Girls used to want a solid relationship, before sex.

It was terrible.
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GORDON wrote: If.youre open and honest with most women, and tell them you aren't ready for a commitment, but are open to just being good friends who sleep together, they'll often appreciate the honesty, will sleep with you anyway, and be honestly curious about the other girls.
Duh? I've been saying that my whole life.
GORDON wrote:Girls used to want a solid relationship, before sex.
This was not my experience, but to be fair were you ever single? Didn't you marry while in the military or meet her while in?
GORDON wrote: This was the early 90s, the AIDS era, and the casual sex Tinder revolution wasn't a thing yet.
The weird part is that millennials are having less sex than prior generations.
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Leisher wrote:
The weird part is that millennials are having less sex than prior generations.
That's not weird, you have to get out of your basement to get sex.
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I think a small.percdntage of men are having way more sex than used to be possible.

The rest are loser basement dwellers.
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Leisher wrote:The weird part is that millennials are having less sex than prior generations.
I wonder how much Internet porn plays into that. I know ED's become a problem in the early teen to mid 20's group.
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Leisher wrote: The weird part is that millennials are having less sex than prior generations.
Current generations will be the first to worry about how little sex their kids are having.
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I mean, don't discount that Mother Nature might be fiddling with things. "Too many assholes up here..."
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Gordon until his kid comes home

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Not.gonna lie...
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I've been thinking I need a life preserver.
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I'm apparently at peak desirability. Mid-40s, white, postgrad education.
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TheCatt wrote: I'm apparently at peak desirability.
Welcome to my world.
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Leisher wrote:
TheCatt wrote: I'm apparently at peak desirability.
Welcome to my world.
Just imagine if you had a smokin-hot postgrad degree :)
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