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Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2018 1:47 pm
by TheCatt
GORDON wrote:Source of the post and purrs when she's satisfied, and doesn't realize she's doing it.

That's really weird. I can't believe you spent your date watching videos of her banging her ex(es).

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 10:35 am
by GORDON
Know what?

If.youre open and honest with most women, and tell them you aren't ready for a commitment, but are open to just being good friends who sleep together, they'll often appreciate the honesty, will sleep with you anyway, and be honestly curious about the other girls.

Go figure.

But it could be because I communicate well. Your mileage may vary

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 12:16 pm
by GORDON
Long story short, these little flings, done with complete honesty, may be the healthiest relationships I've ever had.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 12:42 pm
by TheCatt
GORDON wrote:Source of the post Long story short, these little flings, done with complete honesty, may be the healthiest relationships I've ever had.

That makes me wonder if you haven't done complete honesty before?

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 1:03 pm
by GORDON
Hiding real feelings. Mostly referring to the last 5 years.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 1:29 pm
by TheCatt
GORDON wrote:Source of the post Hiding real feelings. Mostly referring to the last 5 years.

Gotcha. Well, honesty is key and all that jazz.

Part of my is like "I hope you're wearing a condom" and part of me is like "Ugh, condoms are the worst"

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 1:44 pm
by GORDON
I cant really remember what dating was like before I was married, but I think it was doing and saying anything to get laid. This was the early 90s, the AIDS era, and the casual sex Tinder revolution wasn't a thing yet. Girls used to want a solid relationship, before sex.

It was terrible.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 7:43 pm
by Leisher
GORDON wrote:Source of the post If.youre open and honest with most women, and tell them you aren't ready for a commitment, but are open to just being good friends who sleep together, they'll often appreciate the honesty, will sleep with you anyway, and be honestly curious about the other girls.


Duh? I've been saying that my whole life.

GORDON wrote:Source of the postGirls used to want a solid relationship, before sex.


This was not my experience, but to be fair were you ever single? Didn't you marry while in the military or meet her while in?

GORDON wrote:Source of the post This was the early 90s, the AIDS era, and the casual sex Tinder revolution wasn't a thing yet.


The weird part is that millennials are having less sex than prior generations.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 7:50 pm
by TheCatt
Leisher wrote:Source of the post
The weird part is that millennials are having less sex than prior generations.

That's not weird, you have to get out of your basement to get sex.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2018 8:22 pm
by GORDON
I think a small.percdntage of men are having way more sex than used to be possible.

The rest are loser basement dwellers.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2018 4:28 pm
by Vince
Leisher wrote:The weird part is that millennials are having less sex than prior generations.

I wonder how much Internet porn plays into that. I know ED's become a problem in the early teen to mid 20's group.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2018 4:42 pm
by TheCatt
Leisher wrote:Source of the post The weird part is that millennials are having less sex than prior generations.

Current generations will be the first to worry about how little sex their kids are having.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2018 7:42 pm
by Leisher
I mean, don't discount that Mother Nature might be fiddling with things. "Too many assholes up here..."

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2018 5:37 pm
by TheCatt
Gordon until his kid comes home

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Dating in your 40s

Posted: Sun Aug 12, 2018 6:25 pm
by GORDON
Not.gonna lie...

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2018 8:51 am
by TheCatt
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Dating in your 40s

Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2018 9:46 am
by GORDON
I've been thinking I need a life preserver.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2018 12:55 pm
by TheCatt
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I'm apparently at peak desirability. Mid-40s, white, postgrad education.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2018 1:13 pm
by Leisher
TheCatt wrote:Source of the post I'm apparently at peak desirability.


Welcome to my world.

Dating in your 40s

Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2018 1:26 pm
by TheCatt
Leisher wrote:Source of the post
TheCatt wrote:Source of the post I'm apparently at peak desirability.


Welcome to my world.

Just imagine if you had a smokin-hot postgrad degree :)